Author: Steve Mueller

The value of silence is greatly underestimated in modern day society. Not only are we unable to truly cherish silence, but we also give our very best to avoid it. Most people simply can’t stand silence, which is why they run from it. They try to keep their minds entertained as much as possible. But once they are confronted with silence, a feeling of helplessness and uneasiness starts to emerge. Consequently, the state of ‘not doing’ and the silence that accompanies it are widely regarded as the ultimate sin or punishment. Nothing could be further from the truth. Silence and…

Do you lack confidence sometimes? If so, you’re definitely not alone. While there are some people who seem naturally confident, most of us are not. According to research published by the American Psychological Association, self-esteem levels are especially low when we are young adults. Such a lack of self-esteem does not only influence our behavior significantly, but it has also a negative effect on our emotional and mental well-being. This in turn influences our confidence of being able to succeed at what we are doing. Let’s have a look at some effective brain hacks you can utilize to supercharge your…

“Just be yourself” might quite possibly be one of the most overused phrases when it comes to individual advice. Parents tell their children to be themselves when they go out on their first date. Friends encourage us to be ourselves when we have a job interview. There are many more situations in which people advise us that the best thing to do, is to simply be ourselves. But what does it mean, to be yourself? And more importantly, how can you be yourself when you don’t even properly know who you truly are? The following will shed light on this…

Do you want to make that exceptional woman in your life feel extraordinarily special? Do you want to show her how unique she is and how much you appreciate her? Do you want to show your affection, but struggle to find the right ideas? It’s not at all difficult to make a girl feel special. All it takes is a couple of genuine ideas to show your affection. The following will present you a huge list of creative ideas to let her know you truly care about her. Discover 100 exciting ways to make a girl feel special. These simple…

Giving constructive criticism isn’t easy. There’s a big difference between well-meant criticism and giving feedback that is well-received. Without the proper tools at hand, it’s quite possible that criticism is not at all well-received. Our suggestions might be simply ignored, leaving us wondering what went wrong. If you’ve ever held criticism back because you were not sure how to constructively convey your opinion, then this article will be of great use for you. Here’s how to give constructive criticism the right way.

What exactly is success? How can it be defined? And what does it mean to be successful in life? These are the fundamental questions each and every one of us is continuously confronted with. Sadly, most people unquestioningly adopt society’s definition of success. Or, at least the definition that is propagated by media and mainstream culture. Based on this widespread definition of success, a person is successful when they make a lot of money. It’s as simple as that. If you have a lot of money, a nice car and a big house, you’re considered successful. If, however, you base…

Love isn’t always the answer. It doesn’t always conquer. The famous Colombian novelist Gabriel García Márquez wasn’t so off when he wrote, “nothing in this world was more difficult than love.” Yet, many lack a clear understanding of what love is. They idolize it as the answer to everything. The be-all and end-all solution to their problems. The power of love is greatly overestimated. As a result, our relationships with the people we care about suffer. Here’s why love is not enough.

Are you tired of reading books that leave no impression? Tired of books that are entertaining, but come without a real message? Everyone knows these kinds of books. You read them, but there’s nothing inspiring or motivating about them. It feels as if you’re reading blank pages. There’s nothing of value to be found within the lines of these books. They don’t inspire you to challenge yourself. And they certainly don’t motivate you to affect positive change in your life. But really, there’s absolutely no need to waste your precious time on mindless books. There are simply far too many…

Are you feeling stuck in life? Many people do. Sometimes it feels as if we simply cannot move on with our life. As if there was something that kept us from pursuing our dreams. Consequently, we feel limited and simply do not know what to do. We have no idea how to break free from the limitations that are imposed upon us. What is worse, we do not even know what it is that imposes these limitations on us. It’s quite scary to be confronted with an invisible obstacle you cannot seem to tackle. Even though the situation may seem…

Life is a continuous progress. We all grow, develop and mature. As we continue to move on in life, we move from one stage in life to the next one. For some, this transition feels like a natural process, while others find themselves stuck in certain stages for decades. Some might even skip entire stages completely, without learning the important lessons of a given stage. What’s true for all of us is that there are a number of distinct stages of life we go through once the time is ready. These stages are experienced by all humans throughout the course…

Your success depends on many different variables. Skills, habits and all kinds of attitudes contribute largely to your individual achievements. Even though there are many important variables, there is one that stands above the rest: self-discipline. Nothing else determines your success in life quite as much as the ability to be self-disciplined. Let’s discover what self-discipline really is and how we can use it to excel in life. Here’s an answer to the question: “What is self-discipline?” Self-discipline is vital for success. In fact, it’s the number one characteristic needed to successfully pursue your dreams. Its impact can be felt…

You can safely ignore most amateur psychology tricks that can be found on the Internet. Most of these mumbo-jumbo hacks are clearly inefficient and a waste of your time. There are, however, some hidden gems to be found in a sea of mediocrity. One only has to look close enough to discover some truly brilliant pieces of advice. The following psychological life hacks will help you to be more successful at work, in social situations and in life in general. But don’t worry, I will not waste your precious time with the typical advice one can find on the Internet,…

Your life as it is today is the sum of your habits. Every thought and every single action that you repeatedly engage in ultimately shapes your present life. Your happiness, motivation, and success are the direct result of the culmination of all your habits. That which you do repeatedly will make or break your entire life. The problem is that we tend to pick up most habits unconsciously. This allows negative routines of behavior to sneak in, without us even realizing it. Once such a negative habit is established, it’s quite difficult to break it. But what if you want…

Having a true best friend can be priceless. Not only do they understand us perfectly, but they also do stand on our side when we need them the most. There are so many exciting and thrilling memories we share with our best friend that it’s impossible to imagine having lived a life without them. And even though one’s best friend might be traveling the world, this very special person has always been and will always be there to share the most important moments of life with us. Your best friend is the icing on the cake that makes life truly…

What is the value of knowledge that is not applied? Is there any use of theoretical wisdom if it is not put to practice? The logical answer to these questions seems to be that there is not too much value in the mere acquisition of data. Yet, people seem to be addicted to the consumption of information. For theory junkies information comes first. Implementing what they have learned is an entirely different subject that is more often than not neglected. Knowledge is power. Most people know that. At least, everybody keeps repeating the phrase like a mantra. Knowledge, however, does not…

What exactly is success? How can we define it? It seems as if everyone wants to be successful in life. We all are pursuing success. Still, most of us have absolutely no clue how we can accomplish success. Do we even understand what it truly means to be “successful?” Or are we simply repeating the definition of success that media and society have placed in our mind? If you ask 100 people on the street about their definition of success, you’ll most likely receive 100 different answers. For many, being successful in life is closely associated with having a lot…

Letting go is incredibly difficult. No matter if we cling to worries about the future, or if we keep replaying the mistakes of the past again and again in our mind—it can be quite painful when you have difficulties to move on. The desperate attempt to hold on to the things that were familiar to us limits our capability to experience happiness and joy in the present moment. Life is all about continuous change. This means to us that no matter how hard we try to keep things as they are, we will sooner or later be confronted with relentless…

Everyone knows these days when you’re feeling absolutely unenthusiastic. Even the smallest tasks seem like huge challenges that cannot be overcome, so why even bother? It’s far easier and more comfortable to stay in bed and watch television, right? Are you not motivated to do anything? Feeling unenthusiastic and unmotivated about your daily tasks and responsibilities? If you have started noticing that you are not getting anything done anymore because of your depleted motivation, then it’s finally time to change things for the better. This article will show you the reasons why you are feeling a lack of motivation and…

Although time seems to fly by, we all have the same 24 hours a day. So why is it that some people are able to accomplish so much more than the majority of the population? One possible explanation can be found in their skill to manage time more efficiently than others. But how is it possible to cope with the flood of tasks that all require our immediate attention? In a time where missing deadlines is not an option, the Covey time management grid can help you to manage your available time more efficiently. Covey’s matrix allows you to organize…

Life can be really tough. It’s a daily struggle with one daunting challenge after another. As if this was not already enough, life also has the tendency to give us a really hard time whenever it pleases. It will smack you to the ground and throw dirt at you. In other situations it will try to push you beyond your limits, just to see if you break down. And just when you thought the worst part was over, life finds a new way to throw curveballs at you. Even though life is hard we must not give up. We do…